About 8 months ago, I was asked to be the godmother by a
humble family that I have been very close with for the past year in Huallanca
and who treats me like a part of their family. I had been asked by several
families to be the godmother of their child but politely declined until I was
asked by one of my favorite families and I accepted with honor.
What does it mean to be a godmother or godfather in Latin
America?
Being a godparent is a very catholic tradition and Latin
America, being a very catholic part of the world, is very big on having godparents; not only for the emotional support of the child but for the
financial support as well. Being a godparent generally means being the
financial supporter for an important event in a child’s life such as a baptism,
school graduation, or wedding. Supposedly they are also supposed to be like a
second parent to the child but if you ask me, it’s a purely financial
commitment. I was asked to be the godmother of a 5 year old girl named Beranic
(pronounced Bear-uh-nees) for her kindergarten graduation partywho named.
Thankfully, a good guy friend of mine in Huallanca named Leonardo agreed to be
a “compadre” with me or a co-godparent-Beranic’s Godfather- so that the entire
financial burden wasn’t on me. Graduation ceremonies in Peru are very fancy-
even a kindergarten graduation as you will see from the photos below. For her
graduation ceremony my co-Godparent and I bought her dress, pea coat, dress
shoes, purse, stockings, present, and hair style. Because of tradition and
culture and also economic reasons, kids who do not have Godparents cannot
participate in the important event that is due to take place. Less than half of
the students Beranic’s kindergarten class were able to participate in the
graduation party because they did not have godparents.
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I painted here nails while we waited at the salon to get her hair done. They don't make appointments so you just have to show up and wait a long time sometimes! |
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Mid hair styling :) |
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She just warms my heart :) |
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Make up time :) |
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Beranic, her Godfather, and I ready to walk into the promocion |
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Dancing with her Godfather |
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The students dancing |
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Playing games with the clown |
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Playing games with the clown |
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My precious little goddaughter! |
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Piñata time! |
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Me and my princess |
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With Beranic's mom, now my "comadre" (my co-mother) |
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Opening the gift we gave her |
Something I have found very obvious in Peru is that parties
for kids are in fact not actually for the kids at all but rather for the
adults. The kids will hang out and have fun for a little bit and then will get
tired or bored and the parents will literally drink and dance until the sun
comes up. Beranic’s graduation was set to start at 7:00 pm “on the dot” but of
course in true Peruvian style it started around 8:30pm. The party was started with
a clown show for the kids in which they played and danced around and broke open
several piñatas. At around 10:00 pm the
kids were totally exhausted and began to fall asleep in the parents laps and in
the chairs which is when the parents were just getting started with the
partying and literally didn’t stop partying until 6:00am. I have said this
several times throughout this blog but it’s so true that I feel like I can never
say it too many times: PERUVIANS LIKE TO PARTY!
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I wasn't joking when I said the kids fell asleep in their parents lap while the parents started to drink! |
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Dancing to huayno music |
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While the adults partied my goddaughter sat in her chair and played with her new baby doll that I gave her |
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She loved her new doll :) |
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More of kids sleeping while parents drink |
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These are called "cajas de cerveca" (boxes of beer) and when drinking Peruvians always buy "cajas" to pass around. |
So now even though Beranic’s graduation party is over, I
still have the title as her Godmother which means I will help to buy her school
supplies every year and I will financially support her in her graduation from
primary school and from secondary school in the far future. I better start
saving up now because those events aren’t cheap! Even though it’s a bit of a
financial commitment, being Beranic’s Godmother has been a great cultural
experience and an honor for me and I am thankful to have this opportunity that
I would never have in the US.